Your Child’s First Visit to the Dentist

Preparing children for their first dental visit can make the difference between smooth sailing and weathering the storm. Relax and be at ease with your child when you talk about an upcoming appointment. If you are anxious, your child will sense it. Explain to your child that the dentist will count his or her teeth and possibly take a picture of them. Don't use words that may frighten your child such as hurt, X-ray, drill, shot, or needle. Don't talk about negative experiences you may have had at the dentist office and don't allow other people do this either. Use words like uncomfortable instead of hurt or pain and use the words point, count and touch instead of poke or jab.

Take your child on a fun trip with interactive games and stories that are excellent tools in preparing them for their first dental visit. A good resource for this is the ‘games’ section at ADA.org. There are also books available like "Barney Goes to the Dentist" by Linda Cress Dowdy and "The Berenstain Bears Visit the Dentist" by Stan and Jan Berenstain that may help your child understand what to expect and ensure a successful appointment.

Scheduling the appointment early in the day when your child is alert can help prevent a cranky attitude. Engaging in light conversation with the dentist will give your child confidence in viewing the visit as a positive and painless experience. However, don't interrupt when the dentist is speaking as this divides your child's attention.

With younger children, you may want to hold them in your lap during the exam. This will make them feel more secure and help them remain calm throughout the procedure. With older children, you may want to stand at the rear or side of the room and remain silent, supporting your child with your presence but showing confidence in the dentist by relinquishing full control over the treatment. Sometimes, a child may be more comfortable with you out of sight.

Children's dental health is important to their overall health. Make sure you discuss brushing, flossing, and general dental health with your child's dentist. Be positive in your preparation for that all-important first impression. Education and encouragement can make going to the dentist a pleasant experience for everyone.